Is it true that gays were not really happy in terms of love life? They lost in the end.?

I am into relationship with a straight guy. It was a trip at first, as time passed by i found my self falling for him. Is it true that gays will never be happy in this kind of relationship


?Is it true that gays were not really happy in terms of love life? They lost in the end.?
It depends on what your goals are for happiness.





If you can find happiness with the kind of separation entailed in such a relationship, then you'll be filled with joy.





If, however, you want someone to be entirely intimate with, then you're going to be disappointed.





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I know guys in a committed loving relationship. I'm a gay sl#t but that doesn't mean we all are. Relationships mean loss of freedom and I'm all about freedom.
yeah. if you fall in love with a straight friend your just going to get hurt. been there, felt that.
No, that is not true, I was happy when I had girlfriends. You have to make your own happiness, sometimes. =)
If you are a gay man in love with a straight guy. No long term will work. If you are a lesbian and in love with a straight guy, that might work if you don't mind sharing another women with him. I feel it works best when you don't pretend to be something you are not. It is not fair to children, you might have and in 15 years tell them, hey, I'm gay and can't be here anymore. Pick your team and stay on it or be up front with it so no one will be surprised in the years ahead. Just my opinion.
when you date straight people they are not in it for love they are ';just checkin';, stay away from those who dont 100% know what they want
If you're a gay man in love with a straight man, then I'm afraid the odds of this relationship working out in the long run are not good -- assuming your boyfriend is truly straight. If he's really straight, he won't stay with you for very long; sooner or later he'll want to be with a woman and he'll leave you.





OTOH, if he's bisexual, or previously closeted and only pretending to be straight, then it could work out happily for both of you.